Jessica Hover
Jessica Hover
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Things “Gone Good” Episode | An even deeper dive into the secret of loving your life
To kick off Season 6, Jessica and Layne revisit the transformative power of loving your life, even amidst the challenges of raising young children, recovering from cervical cancer and figuring out how to pay bills. Jess introduced us to the mantra "I love my life" in the final episode of last season and while you don't need to hear it to enjoy this episode, it is a conversation that genuinely changed us both and we recommend listening when you can (find the link below)! Today we build on that with a discussion about how to find strength and "love your life" even on your worst days. We share stories about times in our lives when things "went good" instead of going bad. We offer encourageme...
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Видео

Managing Anxiety Before Baby #2 or #3: Real Advice for Moms
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Join my next coaching group for expecting parents! verygoodmothersclub.com/pages/coaching Please share your own tips and encouragement with other moms in the comments! ♥️ 🌟 Looking for more support? Join Very Good Mothers Club for weekly Zoom calls and an online support group of real mom friends where you can connect and gain the guidance you need. verygoodmothersclubhouse.com In this heartfelt...
The Truth about Early Parenthood: Why I am obsessed with helping new moms
Просмотров 2,4 тыс.День назад
In this more intimate video, I open up about the raw realities of early parenthood and share why I am so deeply committed to supporting new moms on their journey. As a recent survivor of cancer and someone who has faced my own mental health battles, I understand the unique and complicated challenges that come with being a parent. I delve into the struggles that new mothers face and why they are...
Cervical Cancer: My Journey and Healing After Partial Hysterectomy
Просмотров 8 тыс.Месяц назад
Hi friends 🌼 In this heartfelt video, I open up about my recent journey through surgery, including a partial hysterectomy due to cervical cancer, vaginal repair for prolapse, and hernia surgery, just two months ago. I want to express my deepest gratitude to all my friends, family and subscribers for your incredible support, whether through generous gifts, kind words, touching stories, or contri...
How to stop waiting and start loving your life right now.
Просмотров 2 тыс.Месяц назад
In this episode, Jess and Layne face one burning question: how can you truly love your life RIGHT NOW? We discuss the trap of waiting for our circumstances to change before we can live a life we love and our tendency to overlook our wins, constantly moving the goalposts, missing the opportunity to celebrate our accomplishments. From recognizing the dreams you've already achieved (like becoming ...
Be Direct | Cut through the parenting buzzwords and connect with your toddler
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.2 месяца назад
In this episode, we dive into the importance of being direct and clear when communicating with your toddler. Say goodbye to the endless search for the "right" parenting language or trying to follow every expert's advice. We discuss why using straightforward language and saying what you mean can strengthen your connection with your child, build trust, and reduce frustration for both of you. Disc...
Failing Forward | How to embrace failure and grow as a parent
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.2 месяца назад
Are you afraid of failing as a parent? Jess and Layne get real about their deep fears of public failure and share wisdom on why failing fast is a gift. We explore how being willing to fail is essential for building the lives we want, and why falling is a non-negotiable part of learning. Jess shares how feelings of failure during postpartum led her to create RUclips videos documenting her journe...
Less-Gentle Parenting | How to be the calm leader your toddler craves
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This week Layne and Jess discuss the trend of gentle parenting content on social media that might be missing the mark. Is it sometimes just permissive parenting in disguise? We explore why strong leadership and clear boundaries are crucial for raising happy and secure children. We get into why toddlers might secretly be RELIEVED when you tell them "no", and how setting limits with love actually...
Body Image Revisited | How to live FULLY in whatever body you have
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Body Image Revisited | How to live FULLY in whatever body you have In this authentic (and kind of messy conversation), Jess and Layne revisit our exploration of body image. We ask questions like, "What does it truly mean to be sexy?" and, "How can women cultivate genuine confidence?" Jess shares a profound realization from experiencing cancer: how precious it is to be alive in a body, irrespect...
Cervical Cancer Update - surgery tomorrow!
Просмотров 8 тыс.2 месяца назад
Thank you so much for supporting our family ❤️gofund.me/1669e86b Surgery is April 5 at 9:30am. Will update more after!! See you on instagram! @jess_hover @verygoodmothersclub Join Very Good Mothers Club for more friendship, guidance, and weekly Zoom calls! verygoodmothersclubhouse.com
More Than Memes - the internet gets parenthood wrong. Claire Edwards (my FAV TikTok momfluencer)
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.3 месяца назад
We had the BEST time talking to Claire Edwards, mom of two known for being very funny on TikTok, about why the internet's negative portrayal of parenting isn't telling the whole story. Claire opens up about how scared she was to become mom because the internet made it look terrible (think: videos of moms having a breakdown in the Target parking lot). Claire shares why she's loving motherhood in...
Childcare vs. Mom | Debunking Myths & Finding the Perfect Fit for Your Child
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Childcare vs. Mom | Debunking Myths & Finding the Perfect Fit for Your Child
How to Overcome People Pleasing and Get Your Needs Met | YOU MATTER.
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How to Overcome People Pleasing and Get Your Needs Met | YOU MATTER.
Toddlers Cannot Share | How forced sharing leads to people pleasing
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Toddlers Cannot Share | How forced sharing leads to people pleasing
Cervical Cancer Update - Hysterectomy countdown begins
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Cervical Cancer Update - Hysterectomy countdown begins
Whole Brain Child | How to Boost Your Child’s Brain Development
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Whole Brain Child | How to Boost Your Child’s Brain Development
Reclaiming Your Identity | Quigley Goode on Motherhood, Mental Health & Creativity
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Reclaiming Your Identity | Quigley Goode on Motherhood, Mental Health & Creativity
I Want to Believe in Myself | How to Have Faith in Your Life Direction
Просмотров 1,7 тыс.4 месяца назад
I Want to Believe in Myself | How to Have Faith in Your Life Direction
Oncologist appointment update + hysterectomy date set.
Просмотров 24 тыс.5 месяцев назад
Oncologist appointment update hysterectomy date set.
2 months since my cancer diagnosis, have not seen an oncologist yet. Update.
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2 months since my cancer diagnosis, have not seen an oncologist yet. Update.
Cervical Cancer: Will I be doing my own hysterectomy too?
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Cervical Cancer: Will I be doing my own hysterectomy too?
Rules Are Dumb | How to teach your kids more effectively + easily
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Rules Are Dumb | How to teach your kids more effectively easily
I have cervical cancer.
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I have cervical cancer.
Let Kids Be Small: Why NOW matters more than the future
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Let Kids Be Small: Why NOW matters more than the future
Too Much "Yes" | How to break the cycle of toddler overindulgence
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Too Much "Yes" | How to break the cycle of toddler overindulgence
Christmas Best Of | How to make the most of the holiday season with kids
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Christmas Best Of | How to make the most of the holiday season with kids
Life after loss ❤️‍🩹 - Very Good Enough podcast
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.6 месяцев назад
Life after loss ❤️‍🩹 - Very Good Enough podcast
Time Spell 💫 | How to make time slow down when life gets too busy
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.7 месяцев назад
Time Spell 💫 | How to make time slow down when life gets too busy
Difficult Discussions | How to be honest with kids about the hard stuff. Very Good Enough Podcast
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Difficult Discussions | How to be honest with kids about the hard stuff. Very Good Enough Podcast
Decision Fatigue | How to make everyday choices and not burn out
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Decision Fatigue | How to make everyday choices and not burn out

Комментарии

  • @LeighAnneLinehan
    @LeighAnneLinehan 20 минут назад

    That was such a great video! This was a sweet gift. Thanks Jessica for taking the time to speak such wisdom into a complex life situation. You're truly an important voice to parents. I'm living a full and happy life with a two year old basketball loving boy and a six month old social girl. It's the best, and what a journey!

  • @brittanychanelle
    @brittanychanelle 8 часов назад

    I can't describe how important this video is for mom's who have anxiety or fears with having babies after their first !! i am saving this for when i'm postpartum with baby #2 (due in 2 months) and will be sending this video to any other moms who are expecting another baby. thank you for making this video ❤i don't have many mom friends and all my closest friends do not have kids so this is the exact thing i needed to hear coming from another *experienced* mom. thank you.

  • @cherierichards8139
    @cherierichards8139 12 часов назад

    He was so gentle with her. Great job dad!

  • @micaelablogs
    @micaelablogs 12 часов назад

    Yes!! "The way you have this baby has nothing to do with anyone else" that's the reminder we all need 🙌🏼 i just had my third 😊

  • @AllIAm1
    @AllIAm1 17 часов назад

    On point

  • @AllIAm1
    @AllIAm1 17 часов назад

    She looks just like Eloise!

  • @ShaunHover
    @ShaunHover 22 часа назад

    I love her so much 😭😭 best filmer I’ve ever had

  • @elizpingree
    @elizpingree День назад

    girl yes 👏.

  • @LytlBug
    @LytlBug День назад

    "I yelled at a baby" Yup. Thank you for being so real.

  • @mirianinoa1964
    @mirianinoa1964 День назад

    Very encouraging! Thank you!

  • @Mindfulmaven19
    @Mindfulmaven19 День назад

    I did a video on how I didn’t enjoy motherhood and I didn’t get a ton of comments or anything but I did get two and those two comments were not very kind. I know I didn’t explain myself very well and I use humor to get through, but still. Didn’t realize I would be discriminated against my feelings. Owell, it’s the internet. 😅

  • @mmitchellsunshine
    @mmitchellsunshine День назад

    I appreciated the thoughts, thanks girls. I would have loved if you had leaned into the “love my life” idea from Jessica a little more, I think it got a little distracted during middle of the cast. -really liked the idea that even as you are growing and working towards dreams leaning into the truth that this is the life I have right in this moment and it is good. It is good to be in my life even with its current sorrows. In the joys and in the sorrows to be present and say I love this life that I have and am grateful.

    • @jess_hover
      @jess_hover День назад

      Thank you! Did you listen to the original love my life episode from last season? ♥

    • @mmitchellsunshine
      @mmitchellsunshine День назад

      Also Jess, I really liked that story you shared about talking with your children and subsequently yourself about “who told you cuz…? It was really poignant because it reminded me of Genesis where God asks Adam and Eve, “who told you that you were naked?”

  • @katelinabercrombie491
    @katelinabercrombie491 2 дня назад

    I love this episode. I needed this perspective shift.

    • @jess_hover
      @jess_hover День назад

      Happy it helped!

    • @katelinabercrombie491
      @katelinabercrombie491 День назад

      It also resonates with a conversation I had with my therapist where she pointed out that our brains (my brain? Lol) don't like to focus on what we know and do well, they like to focus on what could go wrong, what we don't know, what's scary. ❤

  • @esterwikstrom
    @esterwikstrom 2 дня назад

    I love this! <3

  • @Durrpadil
    @Durrpadil 3 дня назад

    What would be hilarious is if your baby came back to this years later and demanded a percentage of profit made from the baby's cameo in these videos. Or even worse, doesn't consent to being filmed entirely due to privacy 😂

  • @6anthony8
    @6anthony8 3 дня назад

    I’ve been wanting to check myself into the hospital because of my depression

  • @R3sp3ctMyGam3
    @R3sp3ctMyGam3 3 дня назад

    When you say "don't hire someone you don't trust", well.... that's pretty much impossible for two main reasons: i) There is no inherent trust between the parent and a professional baby sitter (and I mean someone who isn't family). No matter how many positive recommendations and good first impressions, the parent will always have some reservations at the back of their heads ii) When you let someone look after your child, there is SO much at stake (i.e. your child's well being) that simply you can't absolutely trust anyone other than you. So my point is that there is no way a parent can 100% trust a nanny anyway (and probably that's the healthy thing to do), but they obviously will still need to get one (they one they trust more than the other ones!) to take care of their little ones because sometimes there's no other way to get by.

  • @beckymonalisa8059
    @beckymonalisa8059 3 дня назад

    HPV is not a virus he/she should be living with this virus almost ruined my life, thanks to DR ALAHO OLU on RUclips Channel who helped me eradicated the virus with his Herbal mixture🌿, he cures HSV 1&2, ALS, HIV, FIBROID, MS……….

  • @beckymonalisa8059
    @beckymonalisa8059 3 дня назад

    HPV is not a virus he/she should be living with this virus almost ruined my life, thanks to DR ALAHO OLU on RUclips Channel who helped me eradicated the virus with his Herbal mixture🌿, he cures HSV 1&2, ALS, HIV, FIBROID, MS……….

  • @micaelablogs
    @micaelablogs 4 дня назад

    I just had my third (three under three!) and I definitely had more anxiety this time around than the first or second time. But of course, now that he's here i wouldn't have it any other way 🥰

  • @Woopthereitis90
    @Woopthereitis90 4 дня назад

    Watching this and sobbing hysterically. Yes, I happen to be pregnant with baby #2, so it could be hormones. But how did you know I was feeling all this lurking, ever-present existential dread? I similarly decided to “wing it” with my firstborn, still basking in newlywed bliss and naive optimism almost 3 years ago. I told myself the same thing, “we’ll figure it out! This is the most natural thing ever! Yay so excited!” How was I supposed to know that I’d need to “figure out” my marriage taking an absolute nosedive, my professional performance completely tanking, everyone who I thought would be my “support system” suddenly disappearing? The hardest thing about becoming a mom, believe it or not, was how shitty my life in the periphery became. When I look at my happy, beautiful toddler, I feel like a sadomasochist thinking I’d do it all over again just for the sake of his existence and the love that explodes out of my heart for that kid, but MAN was it rough. I am so scared for how “bad” my life is going to get again with my beautiful baby girl due in a few months, but weirdly I know it is so worth it at the same time? It’s the weirdest mind eff of all time and it’s been really keeping me up at night.

  • @jonnamia2609
    @jonnamia2609 4 дня назад

    I was so lucky 😍 to get cured permanently from HIGH RISK HPV by DR ALAHO OLU on RUclips Channel..

  • @jonnamia2609
    @jonnamia2609 4 дня назад

    I was so lucky 😍 to get cured permanently from HIGH RISK HPV by DR ALAHO OLU on RUclips Channel..

  • @FoodologyFeeding
    @FoodologyFeeding 4 дня назад

    I only have 1 but i've heard going form 1 to 2 is a huge shift vs. from 2 to 3 is relatively easier.

  • @sergiowilliam5552
    @sergiowilliam5552 4 дня назад

    God bless DR ALAHO OLU on RUclips channel for curing my High Risk HPV, that later turned to throat cancer, he cured me with his herbal medicine, after many test my results came out HPV Negative. I’m grateful sir…….

  • @sergiowilliam5552
    @sergiowilliam5552 4 дня назад

    God bless DR ALAHO OLU on RUclips channel for curing my High Risk HPV, that later turned to throat cancer, he cured me with his herbal medicine, after many test my results came out HPV Negative. I’m grateful sir…….

  • @freemasonjurgan9124
    @freemasonjurgan9124 4 дня назад

    I’m so happy and glad of my healing journey with DR ALAHO OLU on RUclips Channel, he cured my High Risk (HPV) with his herbal supplements. After multiple Pap Smear test from different labs my test results came out Negative…………

  • @freemasonjurgan9124
    @freemasonjurgan9124 4 дня назад

    I’m so happy and glad of my healing journey with DR ALAHO OLU on RUclips Channel, he cured my High Risk (HPV) with his herbal supplements. After multiple Pap Smear test from different labs my test results came out Negative…………

  • @lauriewromar5478
    @lauriewromar5478 4 дня назад

    The kid filming perspective is awesome!!! She did great! And that sweet sweet voice. ❤😢❤😢

  • @pterojacktylus2475
    @pterojacktylus2475 5 дней назад

    I dont know if ill ever be a father, but little wonderful humans like this one make me hope. Big love to you and your wonderful daughter, thanks for warming a 33 year old man with no kid's heart on a really bad day.

  • @nateritter4921
    @nateritter4921 5 дней назад

    So cute and bad ass at same.time. kool.koddo and kool.daddy. you did it lol. She's gonna look back some.day and cherish this😊

  • @deandranorman9337
    @deandranorman9337 5 дней назад

    She’s a better camera holder than the professionals

  • @jadenchristian6536
    @jadenchristian6536 5 дней назад

    I used to not want kids. Then I saw this video. Now I want kids

  • @Sir_Richard_Crainum_lll
    @Sir_Richard_Crainum_lll 5 дней назад

    Lol this is absolutely adorable and amazing at the same time 😂

  • @evanhartman8602
    @evanhartman8602 5 дней назад

    That kid is better at filming that a lot of adults that I’ve seen

  • @klvatten
    @klvatten 5 дней назад

    I was worried about loving both children. I just couldn't imagine how "the love/heart grows". Our first born came to visit us in the hospital to meet his sister for the first time. He walked over to her and I realized that I felt the same way about both children already. It wasn't anything "growing", just that the love for your child feels the same no matter how many you have. It is it's own special thing :)

    • @micaelablogs
      @micaelablogs 4 дня назад

      Same!! This was my biggest fear before having my second.

  • @lenahe3078
    @lenahe3078 5 дней назад

    That filming really was amazing!!

  • @Twill1s
    @Twill1s 5 дней назад

    So sick dude, she’s a natural!

  • @jennig3057
    @jennig3057 5 дней назад

    Hooooooray its a lovely day when Jess hover posts. Please never stop making these. Even when the views feel low - we're still here 🌟

  • @Munashorta9292
    @Munashorta9292 5 дней назад

    Thank you so much and I felt relief when I saw your video. I have 5 c-sections and now I am pregnant I am little nervous the 6 c- section thank you for the information.

  • @angelaneal7154
    @angelaneal7154 5 дней назад

    Living life with a deadly virus HPV 🦠 was not the end of life for me, all thanks to DR ALAHO OLU on RUclips Channel. He cured me..

  • @angelaneal7154
    @angelaneal7154 5 дней назад

    Living life with a deadly virus HPV 🦠 was not the end of life for me, all thanks to DR ALAHO OLU on RUclips Channel. He cured me..

  • @jeremyblack9737
    @jeremyblack9737 5 дней назад

    Why are videos for adults made like there are small children watching?

  • @TheTravelingSwiss
    @TheTravelingSwiss 5 дней назад

    Currently pregnant with my second and love loved this video! Love the idea of the love you give to one child flowing into the other, etc <3

  • @cakemebysurprise
    @cakemebysurprise 5 дней назад

    Thank you so much Jess. I found you 4 years ago with my first and you taught me how to swaddle. Im now 38 weeks pregnant with my 2nd and this video you uploaded at the most perfect time. Im so nervous and yes so so tired worrying how ill have the energy to do this ❤

  • @RunaaSteinamrk
    @RunaaSteinamrk 5 дней назад

    Thank you so much for this ❤

  • @zackjordan1626
    @zackjordan1626 5 дней назад

    (I share my husband’s RUclips account) I just got out of the hospital after an extremely similar occurrence to your story. I had an IUD (not my first) placed two weeks ago at six weeks postpartum and it was excruciatingly painful. I ended up in the ER the next week because the pain had not stopped and I was spiking high fevers. After several exams and eventually an ultrasound, xray, and CT similarly to you, they found the IUD up high in my ribcage. I had immediate urgent surgery to remove it. I’m now trying to decide how to move forward and was wondering if I could ask a couple of questions.. Did you remain at your OB’s practice following the incident or change doctors? Did you consider attempting a medical malpractice case with an attorney? Why or why not? Thank you either way; I’m so glad you’re healthy and your little one is precious! And likely not so little anymore ♥️

  • @moldovanca
    @moldovanca 6 дней назад

    I just found out I’m pregnant with our second so your video was a godsend. Thank you, Jess. Thanks for always giving light to what many of us keep in the dark recesses of our hearts. Thanks for always trying to make the lives of others better. You yourself are a godsend.

  • @AloraLacen
    @AloraLacen 6 дней назад

    This video has helped me confirm that I really do want a second child 🫶🏻💕